Genesis
50:15-21
Romans 14:1-12
Matthew
18:21-35
Today’s
gospel reading follows on from last week’s, which was about what to do when
there is sin in the church community. Jesus’ instruction was to seek forgiveness
and reconciliation, and not to escalate the problem.
But
having heard this Peter wants to know more about the forgiveness aspect. How
far do we have to go with that, exactly? If a member of the church sins against
me, do I have to forgive them as often as seven times?
Peter
clearly thinks this would be something extraordinary. But as is often the case
in the gospels he hasn’t really grasped what Jesus is about. So Jesus says to
him, ‘Not seven times, but, I tell you, seventy-seven times’.
These
are not just numbers that Jesus has plucked out of the air. The sequence, “not
seven, but seventy-seven”, occurs in one other place in the Bible, in the Book
of Genesis, chapter 4. Four generations after Cain murdered his brother Abel,
we meet Lamech, a violent hoodlum, who swears:
“I have
killed a man for wounding me, a young man for striking me.
If Cain is avenged sevenfold, truly Lamech seventy-sevenfold”
If Cain is avenged sevenfold, truly Lamech seventy-sevenfold”
The
early stories in Genesis, from creation to the flood, tell us the deep truth
about ourselves. In the symbolic language of myth we encounter both the exalted
dignity of human beings made in the image of God, and the deep flaw that runs
sight to the heart of our human nature, which the Church calls original sin.
Deep in
our origin as human beings there lies this escalation of violence. Not seven
but seventy seven times: revenge increases exponentially, out of control, causing
more havoc in every generation.
So when
Jesus repeats those numbers, and says we must forgive, ‘not seven times, but
seventy-seven times’, he is going right to the heart of the problem, right back
to human origins. He is reversing that ancient escalation of vengeance into an
escalation of forgiveness. But forgiveness is nothing trivial. It entails going
right back to the beginning and starting again.
But if
the original sin has been with us from the beginning, so too has been the hope
of forgiveness. Genesis tells us about that as well, as we heard in the story
of Joseph forgiving his brothers who had betrayed him and sold him into
slavery. For the Church, this moving scene foreshadows the risen Christ
appearing to his disciples who had deserted him, and forgiving them.
Forgiveness
is not a one-off decision that you make, that you can count up, as many as
seven times or even seventy-seven. It is a new reality made possible in Christ.
By ourselves, we cannot go back to the beginning of humanity and start again.
But Jesus does. He is the new Adam, human nature restored and united with the
divine nature of the Son of God. God is love and mercy, and that love and mercy
have come among us in Jesus.
He is
the first of many brothers and sisters. All those who believe in him are
adopted in him by grace, children of God, and so start to live in the new
reality of mercy and forgiveness that he makes possible.
The
parable Jesus tells today shows how radically different that new reality is. A
slave has a ridiculously large debt – billions of pounds in today’s money. But
when the slave pleads for time to pay – as if he ever could – the king cancels
the entire debt. It’s a sudden revelation of astonishing generosity, beyond
anything the slave could have imagined.
It is
in fact a revelation of the new reality of mercy and forgiveness. And therefore
an invitation to enter into that reality, to begin to live like that, forgiving
everything. But the slave fails to do so. He is himself owed a debt of 100
denarii. That’s around four or five thousand pounds today, not a trivial amount.
But the new reality of forgiveness is all about letting go, accepting loss, because
love and mercy are so much better, and you can’t receive those gifts with
closed hands. The slave is shown the new reality of forgiveness, but in the end
he fails to enter in and make it his own.
Forgiveness
isn’t cheap. Even for quite trivial offenses we know how our sense of injured
pride can get in the way. We have to give up our claim to get our own back, and
that isn’t easy. But if we don’t, the lack of forgiveness becomes hardened, the
desire for revenge escalates. Families and friends can be tragically divided,
sometimes for decades, over little things that really shouldn’t matter.
Some
sins of course are very grievous. Some sins might leave wounds that stay with
us for the rest of our lives. How can we forgive then?
One of
the curates of this church in the 1930s was Father Eric Cordingly. In the war,
as an army chaplain, he was taken prisoner by the Japanese and held for three
years, for one of them forced to work on the infamous Burma railway. The
cruelty and abuses suffered by the prisoners were unimaginable. Many died.
Father Cordingly found that after the war he had no hatred or bitterness in his
heart. But for many of those who
survived, and who had a Christian faith, forgiveness was often very difficult.
For some it seems to have been a challenge never resolved in their lifetimes.
Sometimes
of course there is a need for justice, or a need to protect others. But that is
not the same as revenge, and seeking justice or protection does not mean that
we cannot forgive. But when forgiveness is a huge challenge, we need to
remember that it is not so much something that we do, as a new reality, given
to us by God, that we are invited to enter.
Jesus
Christ is the new Adam, human nature remade, the new head of a new humanity. In
that new reality, forgiveness is escalated in place of revenge, not seven times
but seventy-seven. And all those who have faith in Jesus are adopted in him as
children of God and share in that redeemed human nature. Jesus is the one who
forgives, and in him we become people who both receive and give forgiveness.
The
depth of that forgiveness is shown to us on the cross. “Father, forgive them”,
said Jesus. The wounds of Christ, that he received on the cross, never healed.
He showed them to his disciples as proof of his resurrection. They mark his
ascended body still, on the throne of glory in heaven. But Divine grace transformed
those wounds that never healed. They have become, not a reproach calling for
vengeance, but a fresh pledge and assurance of forgiveness, a new demonstration
of love that would not have been possible had those wounds not been inflicted.
Perhaps
this is what Julian of Norwich means when she says that in heaven our sins will
be glorious. Those wounds of sin that go so deep they will not heal, somehow by
grace will be transformed into signs of forgiveness, proofs of love, that would
not have been possible without our woundedness.
How
often should we forgive? Not seven times, but seventy-seven. And this is
possible because this is what God does in Jesus, and we are called to be in
Jesus too.